HOROSCOPE LIES ?

Do you believe in horoscope and zodiac? Adakah anda yakin apa yang dikatakan oleh horoskop anda itu benar belaka ? Memang kita tidak boleh percaya kepada perkara sebegitu tapi pernahkah terdetik di hati anda yang kemungkinan horoskop itu mengatakan perkara yang benar.

Horoscope, coincidence or destiny ? Adakah benar apa yang dibicarakan oleh horoscope anda itu ? Lebih-lebih lagi yang berkaitan dengan kehidupan dan percintaan anda. Adakah boleh dipercayai, apa yang dibicarakan oleh horoskop anda tentang LOVE COMPATIBILITY ?

CANCER with ARIES - Love Can Make It Work

The Arian may have a lot of trouble trying to break through the protective shell of the Cancerian, the crab likes to hide his or her feelings inside and project to the world a very different image of being thicker skinned than they really are. Eventually, the Arian will break through, and then he or she will find a very sensitive person with feelings that are easily damaged.

Cancer is initially attracted to Aries by the strong Arian personality, but before long, Cancer will find out just how different their value system is from one another, and the fiery love of the Arian can cause Cancer to wonder just how long real love can last with such intensity - and begins to doubt how long the Arian's heartfelt declaration of love will endure. Being moody and easily hurt, to the point where he or she may pout for days, does not sit well with the direct and energetic Aries, who thrives on activity and new beginnings.

The quiet outer facade of Cancer was possibly the attraction for Aries - as being a go-getter can wear on the nerves, and they like to have a quiet place to recover in peace. Cancer is a homebody and wants a big family. The Arian may not be ready for that for a few years to come, in which case, Cancer will soon lose interest in sex, as secretly, Cancer feels that sex is for procreation. This attitude will quickly drive Aries into the divorce court or someone elses' arms.

The energetic, sociable, and forward-looking Aries will not get along well with the home loving, protective, nurturing Cancer, who likes to be the leader, and will spend more time sulking than talking, unless he or she is allowed to make most of the decisions in the home.

With all the differences in personalities clashing constantly, this could be a shaky union at best, but with the higher type of Aries and the positive type of Cancerian it can be made to work.

How do you see Aries? As a fiery passionate bombshell who bursts into your life and expects you to forget about yesterday, and not think about tomorrow. Madness or Moon magic?

How does your Aries partner see you? As someone to bring domestic bliss into their lives - but fears your melancholy moods.

How to make things better: Enjoy the passion, seduce Aries with your cooking, and don't ever be too possessive with this impatient Fire sign!

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CANCER with TAURUS - Love Makes It Work

Cancer wants to understand every nuance of Taurus' personality, and will make Taurus feel like the most important thing in his/her life...and expects to receive the same back! Both of these people are very strong in the domestic impulses category, and they will put much time and effort into their home and children.

Taurus will never have to worry about being taken for granted by the quiet, moody Cancer; being a dreamer he will place Taurus on a pedestal and always expect him/her to be perfect, but when the flaws show through he will retire into his shell, feeling let down. Taurus, not being the most tactful person around, will clumsily try to coax Cancer out and wind up driving him even further into his/her shell.

Cancer needs and demands (in the pouting way) a lot of sympathy, and Taurus has the nurturing instincts for giving that will help them to get along better than one would expect. At times, Cancer's nerve will fail him/her, but with lots of support and backing from Taurus, Cancer should be able to face life and even be successful in whatever endeavors he/she should try.

This relationship can and will improve with age and hard work, as these are such different personalities, and in many ways one's strength supports the other's weakness. Cancer's sex life is affected by the way they are getting along in the evening, and if there is arguing or other unpleasantness, Cancer will not make love to Taurus... and too much of this could build a wall between them. If the two are willing to give rather than get, this relationship can be a very good one.

How do you see Taurus? As someone who will understand your yearning for security, and who is wonderfully sensual too. YOu picture this relationship growing stronger every day.

How does your Taurus partner see you? As the warm and loving partner they've dreamed of all their life, and is delighted to discover someone equally practical and dependable.

How to make things better: Vow that neither of you will be quite so stubborn if arguments rise. And watch out that this domesticated heaven never turns into some boring routine.

CANCER with SCORPIO A Match Made In Heaven

Scorpio and Cancer are both motivated by emotion and intuition, and the bond they share will be very strong. Scorpio throws his/her heart and soul into a relationship and expects his/her mate to be true, and will keep a jealous eye open for any wrong doing; if Scorpio is the man in this match he will be an excellent provider.

Fortunately for the relationship, Cancer's beliefs are a mirror of Scorpio's, and Cancer will not give any reason for the Scorpion jealousy to blossom. Scorpio works hard, either at home or on a job, and his/her home is the place reserved for peace and quiet, which is necessary to unwind from all of the daily tensions. If the Scorpio's emotional needs are met and he/she is comfortable with the trust he/she will put in Cancer, then you can expect Scorpio not to look at any other member of the opposite sex.

Cancer's natural concern for other people may somehow lead Scorpio to think that they are using Cancer's good nature and disposition, secretly these thoughts will come from a touch of jealousy of Cancer's interest in someone besides him/her. Cancer has great respect for Scorpio, and even though Cancer is of a slightly critical nature, Cancer will learn to phrase these criticisms without wounding Scorpio's pride.

Cancer can be possessed completely by Scorpio in sexual relations, and be inspired to greater response than he/she can with any other sign. Cancer is able to express her/himself more with Scorpio, thus widening Cancer's horizons of passion. You have to say this is a match made in Heaven.

How do you see Scorpio? As a sensitive, emotional partner who will make you feel more desirable than ever. But so much passion sometimes sends you scurrying back into your shell.

How does your Scorpio partner see you? As someone with whom to share all those sentimental dreams; but doesn't want to feel you're prying into their past too much.

How to make things better: Learn to understand each other's need for quiet moments alone from time to time. Be generous with your love, but never too possessive.

CANCER with PISCES - Love Can Make It Work

The facet of both their natures, strong imagination and instinctive intuitive powers, will enable each of them to understand the other with a minimum of trouble and misunderstandings. Emotional security is the need that is tantamount to the happiness of both; this coupled with a lot of effort on both sides will create a close relationship and a lasting bond. Pisces is a champion of the underdog, and he/she has a soft spot for all vulnerable beings. You will find Pisces' home filled with stray animals of all sorts, as well as stray humans (on occasion), who have no place to go.

When Pisces gets in a depressed mood, or turns pessimistic for no reason at all, then Cancer must be prepared to pour much love, understanding, and a dash of optimism into the relationship to lift the Piscean spirit back up. There are times when the maternal instinct of Cancer is needed because Pisces takes a lot of looking after, for Pisces is often inclined to depressions and drink; in this way, Cancer can happily express the maternal side of his/her nature, but Cancer should do this in a subtle manner, on the many instances that it is necessary.

A strong physical attraction is apt to be felt between them, and they each have active imaginations, although their sexual fantasies is more likely to be employed in a romantic manner. These two will use the sex life to enhance an already good relationship. Given the generalities, this would make a good match; love can make it work.

How do you see Pisces? As a true romantic just like you. But, remembering how impractical Pisces can be over material issues, you're bound to worry that this could be a problem.

How does your Pisces partner see you? With just the same romantic connotation, recognizing a kindred spirit. They realize that domestic bliss doesn't have to simply be a dream any longer.

How to make things better: Relax. You can be practical enough for both of you. Isn't it wonderful to feel in total harmony emotionally? You can give so much to each other and learn so much too.

Pernahkah anda berjumpa dengan seseorang yang berkongsi tarikh lahir yang sama dengan anda dan memberikan anda satu perasaan yang membuatkan anda senang bila berada bersamanya ? Membuatkan anda ingin mengenalinya lebih dekat dan dalam. Membuatkan anda selalu tertanya-tanya adakah ini cinta pandang pertama ? Do you believe in love at first sight ?

Adakah ada faktor kesesuaian antara anda dan bakal pasangan anda ? Adakah yang dinyatakan dalam horoskop itu semuanya bendar ? Adakah itu semua tidak bisa diubah dan itu merupakan takdir anda ? Adakah ianya sebagai batu penghalang untuk anda mendekati seseorang itu ?

CANCER with CANCER - Not A Match Made In Heaven

Both of these individuals have a good memory, and the cause of their disagreements keep coming up time after time, as neither is of a forgiving and forgetting nature. The both of them, being romantics with domestic and sensitive characteristics, should find this to be a good basis for a happy relationship. The trouble in this case is that of excessive sensitivity which can lead them into trouble.

They both take words and actions to be literal truths, and that can mean some consistent pain and unrest for them. They tend to see themselves as martyrs, vastly giving individuals, and when one does not see this in the other, then the reaction is shock. They will waste a lot of time together, better spent on other things, in the middle of petty bickering and dredging up the past mistakes of the other.

If they can act and react in a more positive, mature manner, they will see just how much they really have together to be grateful for. After their arguments they are quick to reconcile. Both partners are so complex and emotional, they will have a hard time viewing life with a more realistic eye, and consequentially, their life together never quite lives up to the expectations of the other.

The intricate feelings of Cancer with Cancer could cause trouble sexually, because their desires rarely coincide with the other's feelings. Each will expect the other to adapt, and this can bring on more trouble. Not a match made in Heaven.

How do you see Cancer? It's like looking at your own reflection in the moonlit water - so you have to be truly happy with what you see! But who could know you better?

How does your Cancer partner see you? Unless their personal horoscope gives them totally different characteristics, your Cancer partner will see and feel the same way as you, and know all about those high and low tides, too!

How to make things better: Don't give each other a hard time when the Full Moon comes along. But remember to remove those protective shells more often and enjoy being in perfect harmony.

Tapi bukankah ini hanya ramalan ? Tidak semestinya apa yang diramalkan itu betul. Mungkin ramalan ini semuanya salah. Siapa yang tahu. Cuma, mungkin sesuatu perhubungan itu bergantung kepada kesungguhan dan juga kekuatan daripada kedua-dua belah pihak. Sekiranya, memang sudah ditakdirkan bersama, walau apa pun yang mendatang, walau apa pun ramalan yang menduga, ianya tidak akan menjadi satu alasan.

Mungkin lagi seronok dan menggembirakan kerana masing-masing tahu perangai dan personaliti masing-masing disebabkan oleh bernaung di bawah satu zodiak yang sama. Mungkin juga, cabaran dan dugaan yang dihadapi akan lebih hebat lagi kerana masing-masing dapat meneka apa yang tersurat dan tersirat di dalam hati pasangan masing-masing. Mudah untuk menjangka apa yang akan dilakukan, apa yang dirasai dan apa yang dirahsiakan.

Atau adakah ini satu kekeliruan atau kecelaruan ? Maybe this feeling is too overwhelming and it do drives me crazy. You feel like, you are already found your soulmate but maybe it is just a false hope which is made from a mixture between fantasy and hunger for love. Am i that desperate ? Desperately searching for love ?

I know, there are lot of things need to be prioritized while you are still at young age such as career and so on. But, love and relationship do play their important roles in my life. Both of them will inspire me and give me drive in directing my life. Maybe this is the Cancerian's traits. I want to be successful in my life, my career and also my relationship.

Tapi, lebih manis dan menggembirakan sekiranya semua kejayaan itu dapat dikongsi bersama dengan orang yang tersayang. Ianya akan jadi lebih bermakna.

BERTEPUK SEBELAH TANGAN ?

Bertepuk sebelah tangan kah, aku ? Atau aku yang terlalu cepat teruja ? Tapi, memang aku teruja sebab sudah lama aku tidak merasakan seperti. Satu rasa yang aneh tapi ianya menyeronokkan. Tidak mahu, rasa itu hilang begitu saja. Aku akan buat bersungguh-sungguh agar rasa itu kekal selamanya.

Tapi, adakah hanya aku yang merasakannya ? Tidakkah dia mahu menghulur tangannya untuk sama-sama bertepuk dengan aku ? Hmm, mungkin terlalu awal untuk buat apa-apa keputusan. Tapi, aku bimbang. Bimbang jika dia dicuri orang.

Siapalah aku ni. Hanya insan biasa tiada keistimewaannya. Cuma hati yang tulus dan keikhlasan yang dapat kuhulurkan.

Alamak, apa kena dengan aku ni ? Stop it!!!! Please focus dengan kerja-kerja kat opis ni. Bukan dia tahu pun apa yang aku rasa. Tapi, apabila kudengar suaranya sudah cukup untuk membuatkanku tersenyum sepanjang hari.

Dah, dah. Cukup-cukup. Nanti, makin meleret-leret pulak.

HAPPY MOOD

Rasa sangat gembira hari ini. Tak tahu kenapa. Tapi, start dari malam semalam sampailah ke detik ini, aku rasa sangat gembira. Mungkin aku sudah berjaya menghilangkan keresahan di hati ini. Sekarang, aku berasakan rasa tenang dan gembira.

Mungkin kerana ada persamaan atau mungkin disebabkan aku memerlukan seseorang yang bisa menenangkanku. Aku cuma menjadi orang yang tabah tapi kadangkala aku tewas dalam ketabahan hati sendiri. Masih memerlukan seseorang yang boleh menyokong aku dan yang sentiasa berada di sisi. Walaupun jauh di mata namun aku tau akan selalu dekat di hati.

Aku harap, rasa ini akan berkekalan. Tapi, entahla. Kadang-kadang, bila terlalu gembira pastinya kegembiraan itu tidak akan kekal. Tapi, aku tidak mahu berfikiran negatif. Nikmati rasa yang ada ini selagi ianya masih sudi untuk datang kepadaku. Mungkin, di dalam perjalanan nanti, akan muncul petanda yang akan memberikan satu kepastian.

Apa aku merepek ni ? Nampak sangat aku dah tak keruan. Aku harap aku bukan kena angau la. Tapi, kalau dah selalu terbayang-bayang, apa maksudnya ? Takkan begitu cepat ? Tapi, aku memang rasa gelisah. Aku pun pening. Apa terjadi ni ?

SIA-SIA

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SEMUANYA SIA-SIA JE.

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LOSER

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TAKKAN AKU NAK PAKSA ORANG YANG TAK MINAT AKU, NAK SURUH DIA MINAT AKU ? ITU SAIKO NAMANYA. TAKPELA, AKU PASRAH DAN BERUSAHA CARI YANG LAIN. ORANG DAH TAK SUKA, NAK BUAT CAMNE LAGI. LET GO JE LA.

TAPI, LAMA2 LET GO PUN, AKU TERASA MACAM AKU NI LOSER. MEMANG LOSER PUN.