Then, this is my time to get "angry" wit Sasa. Actually, it is more to advice to her. I dont want this thing keep happening to her. And she really need to stand up!!! My reply to her as per below...
"sasa, u have to stand out for yourself!!!! ko nak aku sound mamat tu kat facebook ke ? u kan sasa, i tatau apa nak jadi ngan u. u mudah sgt org biar amik advantage atas u. i tau, u are a strong woman tapi knp ngan mamat ni u takleh nak lawan balik ? apa kata u bagi reaction yg sama kat mamat ni macam reaction yg u bagi kat sapa2, yg pertikaikan relationship u ngan nazrul. sure u hangin dan mengamuk bila org condemn hubungan u ngan nazrul, kan. i think, u know what i mean."
"u boleh report kat hr sbb dia guna offensive word. dan dia boleh kena 2nd degree of punishment since benda tu dh masuk dlm sexual harrasment dan tak mustahil leh masuk court. i boleh je email ke hr petronas, email u tadi sbg proof yg si hisham ni mulut sial. mmg ada batas2 utk bergurau but bila u feel offended itu bukan bergurau namanya. i believed, petronas ada very well developed employee handbook which talk about communication among staff."
"sasa, i sayang u sbg kawan rapat i tapi i takleh tahan dan fedup kalo u not even want to stand up for urself even for something abusive like this. even zalina yang nampak soft pun (berangan charlotte york dlm satc) leh stand up dan bagi corrective action and preventive action."
"sasa, i bukan marah u tapi i sayang u, i tanak u keep on feel depress with some stupid matters like this which u know the end effect. u akan migrain, demam2, sakit perut, lapa melampau jadi rasa nak melantak lps tu naik berat badan pastu depress sbb berat naik, u jadi emo, u senggugut, naik jerawat dan bermcm2 lagi yang menyebabkan u sendiri akan rasa menanggung akibatnya. even, the guy not even responsible for things that he have done to u. dia leh buat relax je tanpa rasa bersalah. since u suka meracau2 dlm email dan dpn kitorg semua, apa kata u meracau betul2 dan sikit histeria smbl maki hamun dpn dia kat opis tu, biar dia tau yg sbnrnya dia mmg jahat dan bagi u peer pressure. so org akan tau perangai dia dan mayb dia akan berubah, hope so. takpun dia akan kena transfer ke dpt lain."
"kenapa u nak mengalah sasa ? i rasa kesian sgt kat u. mcm u slalu jd mangsa keadaan. ni bukan pasal u verbal i tak verbal tapi it is about ur dignity dan u sendiri rasa u yg being womanized. sasa, lagi skali hisham buat camni kat u, i akan activate balik facebook i dan i akan maki hamun dia dan siap bg warning akan report to hr petronas. dan i akan copy paste smua email kita chat ni (bertapis la tapi, hanya hi-lite bahagian dia maki u dan u nangis psl dia) kepada hr petronas. becoz ini bukan kali pertama u mengadu dh banyak kali si hisham ni buat hal ngan u kan ? well, ada stgh pompuan suka dan tak kisah but u r obviously not one of them since u feel offended. this is something yg bukan utk main2"
"sasa, i ni kerja bidang safety, occupational health is one of my scope, including office safety. apa yg u alami ni, dah kira masuk mental illness tau, peer pressure. either u yg seek advise from doctor *(mcm acai di shell) atau si hisham tu yg seek advise. mana u nak ? u can think by your own, honey. obviously bukan u yg "sakit" kan. so,sasa. please please please stand out for yourself and speak out!!! tak guna u gi course sana sini, handling pressure, managament bagai but benda yg mcm ni u takleh nak settle. buang masa u dan duit petronas, apart of vacation dan holiday la. u just anngap hisham tu mcm contractor2 u yg u leh maki hamun bila diorg buat salah. i tamau u look older compare to your actual age. skrg ni pun, u dh nampak tua dr usia sbnr (sama cam i...huhuhu) sbb u absorb membabi buta camtu je."
"sasa, kami smua kawan2 u, sayang u. taknak u asyik jd mangsa je. if u dont want to help urself, apa lagi yg kitorg leh buat. this is not an offensive email to you but more like caring and loving email to you. we respond becoz we care. kalo tak, baik trus delete je email meracau u ni. sasa, ni bukan 2,3 kali kan but dh berkali2 dia buat u camni."
"i am sorry if i am not using cuddling and comforting words but i just speak out of my concern."
Well, my fingers really tired and i feel like, i already being attacked with MSDs diseases which is stand for musculoskeletal disorders. My fingers cramped and my arms numbed. Well, i thin k it is worth it since I care my friends and i want them to feel happy. Anyway, that what friends are for. Reminding and advising when there is a need for it. Sasa, i love you and thank you for being my friend. (Buat muka dan tengok ke langit) :)
p/s : Sasa, kita kan kawan baik. TQ for your nice remarks, at your blog.
"u boleh report kat hr sbb dia guna offensive word. dan dia boleh kena 2nd degree of punishment since benda tu dh masuk dlm sexual harrasment dan tak mustahil leh masuk court. i boleh je email ke hr petronas, email u tadi sbg proof yg si hisham ni mulut sial. mmg ada batas2 utk bergurau but bila u feel offended itu bukan bergurau namanya. i believed, petronas ada very well developed employee handbook which talk about communication among staff."
"sasa, i sayang u sbg kawan rapat i tapi i takleh tahan dan fedup kalo u not even want to stand up for urself even for something abusive like this. even zalina yang nampak soft pun (berangan charlotte york dlm satc) leh stand up dan bagi corrective action and preventive action."
"sasa, i bukan marah u tapi i sayang u, i tanak u keep on feel depress with some stupid matters like this which u know the end effect. u akan migrain, demam2, sakit perut, lapa melampau jadi rasa nak melantak lps tu naik berat badan pastu depress sbb berat naik, u jadi emo, u senggugut, naik jerawat dan bermcm2 lagi yang menyebabkan u sendiri akan rasa menanggung akibatnya. even, the guy not even responsible for things that he have done to u. dia leh buat relax je tanpa rasa bersalah. since u suka meracau2 dlm email dan dpn kitorg semua, apa kata u meracau betul2 dan sikit histeria smbl maki hamun dpn dia kat opis tu, biar dia tau yg sbnrnya dia mmg jahat dan bagi u peer pressure. so org akan tau perangai dia dan mayb dia akan berubah, hope so. takpun dia akan kena transfer ke dpt lain."
"kenapa u nak mengalah sasa ? i rasa kesian sgt kat u. mcm u slalu jd mangsa keadaan. ni bukan pasal u verbal i tak verbal tapi it is about ur dignity dan u sendiri rasa u yg being womanized. sasa, lagi skali hisham buat camni kat u, i akan activate balik facebook i dan i akan maki hamun dia dan siap bg warning akan report to hr petronas. dan i akan copy paste smua email kita chat ni (bertapis la tapi, hanya hi-lite bahagian dia maki u dan u nangis psl dia) kepada hr petronas. becoz ini bukan kali pertama u mengadu dh banyak kali si hisham ni buat hal ngan u kan ? well, ada stgh pompuan suka dan tak kisah but u r obviously not one of them since u feel offended. this is something yg bukan utk main2"
"sasa, i ni kerja bidang safety, occupational health is one of my scope, including office safety. apa yg u alami ni, dah kira masuk mental illness tau, peer pressure. either u yg seek advise from doctor *(mcm acai di shell) atau si hisham tu yg seek advise. mana u nak ? u can think by your own, honey. obviously bukan u yg "sakit" kan. so,sasa. please please please stand out for yourself and speak out!!! tak guna u gi course sana sini, handling pressure, managament bagai but benda yg mcm ni u takleh nak settle. buang masa u dan duit petronas, apart of vacation dan holiday la. u just anngap hisham tu mcm contractor2 u yg u leh maki hamun bila diorg buat salah. i tamau u look older compare to your actual age. skrg ni pun, u dh nampak tua dr usia sbnr (sama cam i...huhuhu) sbb u absorb membabi buta camtu je."
"sasa, kami smua kawan2 u, sayang u. taknak u asyik jd mangsa je. if u dont want to help urself, apa lagi yg kitorg leh buat. this is not an offensive email to you but more like caring and loving email to you. we respond becoz we care. kalo tak, baik trus delete je email meracau u ni. sasa, ni bukan 2,3 kali kan but dh berkali2 dia buat u camni."
"i am sorry if i am not using cuddling and comforting words but i just speak out of my concern."
Well, my fingers really tired and i feel like, i already being attacked with MSDs diseases which is stand for musculoskeletal disorders. My fingers cramped and my arms numbed. Well, i thin k it is worth it since I care my friends and i want them to feel happy. Anyway, that what friends are for. Reminding and advising when there is a need for it. Sasa, i love you and thank you for being my friend. (Buat muka dan tengok ke langit) :)
p/s : Sasa, kita kan kawan baik. TQ for your nice remarks, at your blog.
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