STAND UP !!!!

If you wanna know the full story, please click this link and read it. I feel very pity for her since he is one of my beloved girl friends and people always taking advantages of her. I understand, maybe she dont have that much confidence to fight back but that is not the way how to encounter it. It is not just keep quiet and curse him in your heart or mind but you have to use visual and verbal actions in order to express that you feel offended with the actions.

She told us in the chained email and told us the full story of it. It really pissed me off. Not only me but everyone who is in the mailing list. Yeah, we are very angry with that guy but in the same we do feel angry with her since this is not the first time for this thing to happen. I only have one word for her, STAND UP !!!! I replied her with a lengthy email and mitigation actions what she should take. She only have gut to express her uneasiness towards him through instant messaging which i dont feel really helpful and obviously it will not stop the guy from repeating his absurd behavior.

Here, i attached my reply email to her. Maybe all the girls out there can stand out for themselves and speak out their minds.

Sasa:

i appreciate if you do not use the words that u used just now. i cant accept it

Noor Hisyam B M Noor:

what word

Sasa:

the c***** word

Sasa:

yg u tego i tadi tu

Sasa:

i felt very violated

Sasa:

i bukan mcm u bole nak balas balik kat u kuat2 smp 1 ofis dgr

Sasa:

sbb unlike u, i am not as verbal as u

Sasa:

so pls, i appreciate u jgn lah nak ckp2 mcm tu lagi

Sasa:

i tak suke

Noor Hisyam B M Noor:

what word

Sasa:

all the words that u use lah

Noor Hisyam B M Noor:

ok

Noor Hisyam B M Noor:

no worries

Noor Hisyam B M Noor:

it will not happen again

Noor Hisyam B M Noor:

bye

Sh Shahrizad Bt Sy Mustaffa:

thanks

Noor Hisyam B M Noor:

i bz sket

That is the conversation between my beloved girl friend with the immature guy. He not even say I AM SORRY !!!!!. What an egoistic and un-gentleman guy. You make a girl cried at her working cubicle and that is the only word which u can say ? Just no worries ? It is so frustrating and so fucking idiot. Then, he acted like nothing happened and still can joke around about her who cried with embarassment, anger and humiliated. What kind of man like this. He is so not worth it. Did he knows that he already committed a sexual harrasment towards his colleague ? Did he knows that he can be penalized for it ? Did he knows that he can loose his job as easy as A.B.C ? Did he knows that he can be dragged to the court and you know what happen next....Well, i think he didnt knows and if he did know, he dont even want to care since this is not the first time. This is a series of his misconduct which he do it without feeling guilty, again and again. As quoted per email below:

<sasa@p.com.my>

Aku kan pernah cite psl ofismet aku yg suke harass aku tu kan..

Td aku tego dia….pastu dia ckp kat aku "eh..nampak ci**p u" dgn suara yg kuat yg bole didengari oleh sume org…

Aku rasa mcm nak pissed off..sbb aku rasa that is just too much…

Aku bole tolerate lagi bile dia ckp2 psl breast (not only mine..but other girls as well)..tp bile dah masuk bab tu..aku rasa mcm kau dah tak hormat girls…aku nak nangis

See!!!! The girl dont like it and she feel really offended with his action. This is not a joke anymore but already upgraded to sexual harrasment.

oops, times up...i will continue my post later.